MIDDLE AGE MAN CAN'T STAND....staying alive or get broke...

Lately, I chatted (called) and met with few of my old friends, men and women. All are still married. Most of us are in the late 40s.With kids either at College or High School....this article is purely my personal thought,just to share to enrich our live path...especially to MyTeam Member!

(2) One man friend said he was not happy. His sex life had gone down the hill....jokingly, I said, you are lucky that your sex life have not gone down the ravine...well I seldom being serious when come to personal life....that some time make them feel annoyed...not my intend! So at late 40s, or older, who on earth still have the 30s sex drive when they are already 40s, 50s or 60s? Not even a hungry tiger or cobra....Why we man get so worried about not able to satisfied our woman....hahhhhhh...and worst why is it we who are so worried about those, not vice verca.....let ask the woman are they equally still as sensitive as when they were 30s...definitely not...so, it is natural that either man or woman, they lost their sex drive as they age out.....is it really the truth that our woman are not satisfied....or is it just to fulfill our ego? And what do we mean by satisfied? We can't go for sexual intercourse training,...there is no academy for that... but we still can learn...there are so many books out there, just we don't bother to read and learn!How to keep ourselves fit, then sexually fit.....to me for both to be satisfied, man and woman, they must remain fit....

(3) Viagra...and those similar things, and here in Sarawak, the gambir Sarawak...are things that strike some guys mind to prolong their durability...bird nest soup, shark fin soup...all sort of sex stimulant food...great? Why is it always sex in our mind? To me it is just an incentive and or excuse to pay high cost for all those rare and special food! But are they really that good sex stimulant...how does it work? Say if we are obese, sick, tired, emotionally disturb...will it work? When did we have meal with all these expensive food...surely under a very happy mood...then, is it the food that matter or the drive because we have the mood? So, keep yourself fit...physically, mentally, and emotionally...sure...even the female leopard would be tame down!

(4) A group of middle age women, once went out for coffee with me. Since I was the only man, they really turn into leopard...really bullied me. With out shame, they fired me at point blank....how long can you stand? 10 mins, 30 min, an hour..or just 5 mins? Yeehh...I don't like standing, it make me tired...I prefer walking around....sure they said, you understand what we mean, but you look for escape route......at this point, ladies...raise your arm, hold it straight, and hold your middle fingure and point at me....just hold them straigh...while I smile...none want to it for more then 5 mns...so, do you understand...you are just raising and holding your arm straight...and you feel tired...so do man! We then just enjoy our coffee...and never talk about ....middle age man can't stand anymore!

(5) I really try to advocate hygienic food, hygienic life style, and surely focusing our mind on our true purpose..as a mean to keep ourselves healthy... physically, mentally, emotionally...and the rest surely come natural, not forced or worried off....